cabarnet savignon

im really liking cabarnet sauvignon. the trader joes variety is really pretty good. i don't know if i definately like it better than merlot...merlot is a little more velvety and soft but the cab sauv seems to be a bit more like a wall one likes to drink with wheras merlot is more like a fabric or petal. and for whatever reason its great with pasta. i used to think merlot was a better daily wine but now i think the cab is more daily. probably more because of the soft vs hard tastes of wine. man of the day or wife of the moment